Published 18 October 2026
What it is
BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. With an escort it means a planned session where one person leads and the other follows.
Before a session you agree on what you want, what you do not want, and a safe word that stops everything.
Other names
- BDSM
- SM
- Kink
- Bizarr
- Fetisch
How to ask for it
Say whether you want to lead or follow, your limits, and your safe word.