Guides
Practical advice on ads, photos, rates, bookings and touring, and what escort services and terms mean.
For escorts, studios and agencies
- How to write an escort ad that gets the right messagesA good ad answers the questions a reader has before they write to you. Here is what to include, what to leave out and how to check your text.
- Good photos for your escort adPhotos decide whether a reader keeps reading. Use recent photos, daylight and a small set.
- Escort bio examples: what to write in “About me”Your About me text is the part of your ad that sounds like you. Here is a simple structure and three bios you can use as a starting point.
- How to set your escort ratesYour rates tell a reader what to expect before they write. Here is how to find your price, how to show it and when to change it.
- How to get more bookings from your escort adMore bookings start with knowing where readers stop. Here is how to find that point and what to change.
- Touring as an escort: how to advertise in another cityA tour works when clients in the new city know you are coming. Here is when to announce it, what to show and how to fill your days before you arrive.
- Escort ad sites in New Zealand: what to compareWhere to check prices and ad requirements for New Zealand escort sites, and how to choose where to advertise.
- Free escort advertising in Victoria and Queensland: where to advertiseFree and paid escort ad sites for Victoria and Queensland, and how to choose.
- Where to advertise as an escort in Austria: sites and pricesAustrian escort ad sites, their prices, and how to choose.
- Where to advertise as an escort in Germany: sites comparedGerman escort ad sites, and how to choose.
- Where to advertise as an escort in Switzerland: sites and pricesSwiss escort ad sites, their prices, and how to choose.
- Where to advertise as an escort in the Netherlands: free and paid sitesDutch escort ad sites, their prices, and how to choose.
- How escorts find clients: ads, regulars and touringWhere new clients come from and how to keep the ones who book again.
For readers
- How to contact an escort respectfullyA short, clear and polite first message gets answered more often. Here is what to write, what to ask and how to react to a no.
- What is the girlfriend experience (GFE)? Meaning and expectationsGFE is a term, not a promise. It usually points to a relaxed, personal style, but it means different things to different people.
Escort services explained
- PSE meaning: what is a porn star experience?A wilder, more performed style than the girlfriend experience.
- Dinner date escort: what a social booking includesAn escort who joins you for dinner, an event or drinks.
- Overnight escort: booking a whole nightAn escort who stays the whole night, with time to sleep.
- Travel companion escort: booking an escort for a tripAn escort who travels with you for a day or longer.
- Incall meaning: visiting an escort at her placeYou visit the escort at her apartment, studio or hotel.
- Outcall meaning: escort hotel and home visitsThe escort comes to your hotel or home.
- Duo and threesome escorts: booking two escortsTwo escorts booked together.
- Escorts for couples: booking an escort togetherEscorts who meet a couple together.
- Erotic massage: what it is and what to expectA full-body massage that ends sexually.
- Tantra massage: meaning, how it works and what to expectA slow, mindful full-body massage, including the genitals.
- Nuru massage: meaning and what to expectA Japanese body-to-body massage with slippery gel.
- Body-to-body massage: what it meansA massage given with her whole body, usually with oil.
- Prostate massage: what it is and how to askStimulating the prostate from inside, with a glove and lubricant.
- Hand relief: meaning and how it is offeredA finish by hand, often at the end of a massage.
- French kissing with an escort: what DFK and FK meanWhat FK and DFK mean in escort ads.
- Cuddling with an escort: booking closenessBooking an escort mainly for closeness.
- Oral sex with condom: what OWC and BBBJ meanWhat OWC and related oral terms mean.
- 69 with an escort: what it means in adsMutual oral at the same time.
- Cunnilingus: what DATY means in escort adsGiving her oral.
- Anal with an escort: what A-level and AV meanWhat A-level and AV mean, and why it is usually an extra.
- Striptease and lap dance by an escortA private striptease or lap dance.
- Shower together: what it means in escort adsShowering together at the start or end.
- Dirty talk with an escortExplicit talk during the meeting.
- Lingerie, stockings and heels: asking for an outfitAsking an escort to wear a certain outfit.
- BDSM escorts: what BDSM means and how to bookBondage, dominance, submission and more, agreed in advance.
- Dominatrix: what a mistress session isA session where she leads and you submit.
- Submissive escort: booking an escort who followsAn escort who lets you lead, within agreed limits.
- Bondage with an escort: tying and restraintTying or restraining with rope, cuffs or tape.
- Spanking with an escortSlapping the bottom, by hand or with a paddle.
- Role play with an escort: popular scenariosActing out a fantasy scenario together.
- Foot fetish with an escortAttraction to feet, and what a booking can include.
- Strap-on with an escort: what pegging meansWhat strap-on and pegging mean.
- Face sitting with an escortShe sits on your face, often with oral.
- Golden shower meaning: what it is in escort adsUrinating on a partner, offered by some escorts.
- Fetish escorts: latex, leather and moreLatex, leather, uniforms and other fetishes.
- Common sexual fantasies and how to live them with an escortThe most common fantasies and how to book one.
- Escort abbreviations: GFE, PSE, OWC, DFK and more explainedThe short forms in escort ads, explained.